As an author, writing intimate scenes, or describing the act of making love is part and parcel of your ‘writer-hood’. Although, I admit, I find it hard to write scenes that are deliciously intimate, and don’t sound vulgar or trashy. However, there is one author, who is also a wonderful online friend and an inspiration to me as to a lot of other authors, who cruises through these intimate scenes with such finesse and taste, that she amazes me every single time. She’s Sundari Venkataraman, author of three Amazon bestsellers, and many more lined up in the pipeline. I asked her, “Oh Sundari! Pray tell me how you do it? What’s the secret that turns your words into such a delight to read!” To which she has responded with this insightful and interesting guest post. So without much further ado, let me make way for the inimitable Sundari Venkataraman, who has agreed to grace my blog today with her guest post –
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Hi, Yamini Vijendran, thank you so much for hosting me on your blog. I am so glad you like the quality of my steamy scenes. I must say I love them too. I will do my best to answer your question though answering it is like walking on a wall with a thick grass verge on one side and concrete on the other. You know which side I would like to drop 😉
First of all, one needs to stop thinking that sex is a dirty word or a taboo subject. It’s a part of every adult’s life. Then why shy away from it? Being curbed makes one shut up or come up with vulgarity. Do you agree?
I am quite comfortable talking about sex. It’s the natural culmination of the feelings of romantic love between two people. Once this premise is accepted, the scene falls in place naturally. It also helps that I like reading steamy scenes in romance books. All readers of love stories must like it too, whether they admit to it or not.
Like in my book The Malhotra Bride, Sunita is an innocent. But that does not mean she doesn’t have sexual urges with the right guy. She falls in love with her fiancé and gets married to him. As theirs is a contract wedding, Akshay stays away from her at the beginning of their honeymoon. She decides to take matters into her own hands and woos him. Now, how will an innocent do that? (In fact, someone had questioned the scene). Her feelings for him are there, even if she is a virgin. And she has been kissed by him a few times. So, I found that a lovely premise for Sunita to take that bold step. The result is a delicious and steamy sex scene between the two. I think there was no place for vulgarity there as they make love and it’s not just sex for the sake of it.
In The Runaway Bridegroom, Chanda finds herself drawn to Ranveer despite everything. As she had been married as a kid, she feels she doesn’t have the right to date another guy. But her biological clock is ticking and she is unable to stop herself from falling for her handsome and intelligent boss. In this book, I have keyed in a couple of kissing scenes between the two as they explore their newfound relationship. It’s not an urge to jump into bed and have sex. So, it needed to be written with a lot of love and I am glad I have obviously managed to do that.
I think reading a lot of Mills & Boon (Between the 70s-90s), Barbara Cartland, Julie Garwood, Nora Roberts, Penny Jordan, Carole Mortimer, Janet Dailey and a host of other romance authors who are well known for the subtleness in love scenes has really helped me while creating such scenes.
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Yamini, you had me floored by that intro. Thank you 😀
And thanks for the opportunity to air my views
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What a delightful way you have summed up the steamy scenes Sundari. I agree that there is no need to think it is vulgar, I think it is very important to show the chemistry of the main characters.
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Thank you Inderpreet 🙂
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